Xenophobia, Anti immigrant,Racism by country tride or sect, racia profiling.
Saturday, July 31, 2010
XENOPHOBIA, ANTI IMMIGRANT, RACISM BY COUNTRY.."WHO OWNS THE LAND..."
Xenophobia, Anti immigrant,Racism by country tride or sect, racia profiling.
Tuesday, July 27, 2010
You can’t wear that! but you can if you want to be called a whore
The young woman is wearing a striped black-and-white mini dress that clings to the ample curves of her body. Her feet bear a pair of killer- heel black stilettos that she is working as though Harare’s bustling Leopold Takawira Avenue were a catwalk ramp and the crowds swarming about her a fashion show audience. Her sleek black weave keeps slapping against her face as she walks, prances rather, to the mix of disapproving groans and lusty stares and catcalls of fellow pedestrians who pass comments she remains oblivious to with each step she takes. If this young woman were leading a protest march through town, half of Harare would have been trailing her by now. In short, she’s stopped pavement traffic and focused all that’s happening on this warm afternoon onto herself.
“Whore!”
“You are not dressed!”
“You are a disgrace to our culture!”
“Go and wear those clothes in South Africa where they have no morals!”
The insults and disparaging statements are flowing freely, although every now and then I do catch the words of a few awestruck men who can’t believe how “together” the young lady is. In Shona, Zimbabwe’s main local language, beauty can be described by the word kubatana, also a synonym for togetherness and solidarity. I follow the trail as long as I can, trying to see and hear different folks’ responses to the “scandalous” lady. The women among the throngs either whisper among themselves or shake their heads in disapproval of the passing young woman’s audacity.
Her dress isn’t even that short, which makes the whole incident all the more bewildering. I feel like I am in a time warp witnessing an anachronistic and sour reminder of a Zimbabwe I grew up in, in the 1990s, where women would be heckled and harassed for even showing a knee cap, let alone a peep of cleavage.
I thought we’d moved on from that fixation with women’s dress and that abusive responses to women’s freedom to wear what they want only still happened in ultra-conservative or religious societies and nations, not Zimbabwe in 2010! Interestingly, in that same week, news broke that a devoutly Islamic district in Indonesia had distributed 20 000 long skirts and prohibited shops from selling tight dresses in bid to enforce a new regulation banning Muslim women from wearing revealing clothes. Perhaps it was naivety on my part. Perhaps it was hope that respect of women’s freedoms was something more than lip service, something more substantive. But perhaps, also, I shouldn’t really be surprised. Two disheartening stories making the headlines in Zimbabwe’s local media last month tell of the horrible injustices that the nation’s women and girls are still facing in an environment that remains heavily patriarchal and insensitive to their rights.
In mid-May, news broke of the suicide of the wife of local sungura musician, Tongai Moyo. She allegedly drank poison after a dispute about Moyo’s decision to bring a second wife into their home. Newspaper reports quoted Moyo as having said that due to his long-standing ill health (from the effects of cancer) he had seen it fit to bring a second wife into the household for extra support. He further added that his wife, Barbara, agreed to the proposal - albeit grudgingly. Her death left two children motherless and has also set in motion discussions and debates on culture, polygamy and gender in Zimbabwe. An equally difficult story to take in was that of the 12-year-old girl who reportedly contracted HIV from rape by a family friend. As the front-page article in the Zimbabwean Herald stated, the young girl was given over by her father to a fellow church member as his fifth wife. The man, who is allegedly HIV positive, then when on to force the girl into having sex with him after her father had left her at the man’s house.
Where, you might ask, was the girl’s mother throughout this whole ordeal? While she was reportedly violently opposed to her husband’s decision to ‘marry off’ her daughter, she felt she had no power to oppose it. "I felt powerless because in our church you can’t go against your husband," she is reported to have said. The difference in settings of the various scenarios portrayed here is vast.
But each rings with the noise of a woman’s oppression. The plight of women in Zimbabwe, their subordination to the dictates of patriarchy and its hegemonic meanings, remains a rampant ill that we must daily interrogate and fight against.
Which is why I applaud that young woman who kept walking and fighting back - head high and confidence aglow - celebrating her right to choice while the crowds tried their damndest to take that away from her.
Aluta continua!
Fungai Machirori is a Zimbabwean writer, researcher, poet and journalist based in South Africa where she works in HIV and AIDS communication. This article is part of the GL Opinion and Commentary Service.
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WHY ARE WOMEN STILL USED AS SEX OBJECTS IN ADVERTISEMENT AND WHAT ARE THE VARIOUS AFTER EFFECTS?
So What's The Impact?
It's hard to say what the exact impact of female sexualized advertising is. As a woman, I can absolutely relate to the feeling of unrealistic expectations of body image, relationships, and aspirations. But the results of these images impact much more than teen angst. According to the Renfrew Center Foundation for Eating Disorders 69% of girls in 5th to 12th grade reported that magazine pictures affected their idea of the perfect body weight and size
Monday, July 26, 2010
HOLD ON TO POWER OR KILL TRYING....MALEMA REVOLUTION
THE PORN FACTOR, WHY DO MEN WATCH PORN AND DO ALL MEN WATCH PORN
why do husbands watch porn?? Why do men watch porn.
seriously are there any older women that know why?
Canadian scientists have been thwarted in their attempt to watch porn and get paid for it because they couldn't find any research subjects who'd never watched it. Researchers at the University of Montreal were planning a study comparing the attitudes of men in their twenties who had never been watched pornography with those who used it regularly. But, sadly, their ground-breaking research project had to be dumped when they failed to find any men who had exerted enough self-control to be in the control group. "We started our research seeking men in their twenties who had never consumed pornography," said Professor Simon Louis Lajeunesse, "But we couldn't find any."
But Lajeunesse wasn't to be discouraged and carried on anyway in a bid to find out more. He interviewed heterosexual male students and found that, on average, they first watched pornography when they were 10 years old. 90 per cent used the internet, the remainder preferring the more traditional video approach. The average unattached subject said he watched for 40 minutes three times a week, while those in relationships were more restrained, watching 1.7 times a week for 20 minutes, presumably stopping when their girlfriends came home. Lajeunesse says pornography does not have a negative effect on men's sexuality and that the subjects' sexual appetites were 'quite conventional', although he didn't go into detail. "Pornography hasn't changed their perception of women or their relationship, which they all want to be as harmonious and fulfilling as possible," he adds. So that's OK then. If there's anyone out there who genuinely hasn't used porn, please get in touch and we'll pass your details on to Professor Lajeunesse.
Should David Beckham TAKE UP A CAREER IN ACTING SINCE HE DOESNT THINK HE WANT,S TO BE A SOCCER COACH?
Tom has been close friends with footballer David Beckham and his wife Victoria since they met in 2003.
And actor is keen for David to swap sport for acting, because he's adamant the sportsman will look great in front of the camera. "I've been encouraging (David) to become an actor. He's got the looks, he's got everything. He'd be terrific," he said.
MALEMA'S CRONY DRAWS ILLEGAL SALARY AND INTERNAL CRISIS IN THE ANCYL...IS MALEMA LOSING HIS TOUCH??
The embattled ANC Youth League (ANCYL) Limpopo chairman, Frans Moswane, Julius Malema's ally, is to be charged with fraud, following revelations that he continued to draw a R35 000 monthly salary, despite allegedly not having reported for duty since June last year.
Moswane is set to be hauled before the disciplinary committee by the Sekhukhuni Municipality, where he works as communications officer responsible for research, with only a matric certificate. Moswane was elected unopposed during a chaotic meeting in Makhado, in April. His predecessor, Lehlogonolo Masoga, walked out of the conference, after Malema, the league president, ordered the police to forcibly remove his (Masoga's) supporters. Malema lost his cool when Masoga's supporters booed him and the ANC provincial chairman, Premier Cassell Mathale, another Malema ally.
MATUMA LETSOALO AND MMANALEDI MATABOGE JOHANNESBURG, SOUTH AFRICA - Jul 23 2010 12:02 Andile Lungisa's term as Anc Youth League deputy president could soon be over, if some branches and leaders within the organisation win enough support to pass a motion of no confidence in him. The prospect of Lungisa's dismissal comes a week after the axing of two senior youth league leaders, Stella Ndabeni, who was on its national executive committee (NEC), and Lehlogonolo Masoga, previously the league's Limpopo chairperson.
Masoga, an ally of Lungisa, was expelled for causing divisions within the league after he took its national leadership to court to interdict it from proceeding with disciplinary action against him.
Ndabeni was accused of signing an affidavit supporting Masoga's claim that the disciplinary action against him was taken to ensure his expulsion. Tension between Masoga and the league's national leadership derives from the chaotic Limpopo conference in April, when league president Julius Malema's confidant, Frans Moswane, ousted Masoga as provincial chair.
Lungisa's supporters want to use next year's elective conference to have their man replace Malema -- a plan that has split the league. Lungisa's support comes mainly from the Eastern Cape, as well as from Cosatu, the Sacp and the Young Communist League -- alliance bodies that all want ANC secretary general Gwede Mantashe to retain his position
With the in fighting in the national executive and the provincial leadership battles and all forms of tenderprenuer, not to mentions various other scandals, would you say Julius Malema is losing his grip on this house of power?
Saturday, July 24, 2010
Plastic and Cosmetic surgery A billion dollar enterprise."WHAT PART OF YOUR PARTNER IS REAL?"
Hair is from India, Brazil or china, chin and nose from brazil or India, buttocks from USA or Europe, legs were designed in South Africa, Breast from France Etc... when all your woman is, is a coupled entity from various parts of the world in the name of plastic and cosmetic surgery, can you please tell me what part of your spouse is REAL!!!!!!!!
When you walk past a beautiful woman and you are drooling over her because she looks so perfect that she looked like she dropped from heaven... has it ever occurred to you to ask yourself "is there anything like perfect?" For you information there is nothing such as a perfect figure or shapes and Hollywood had helped to mess up our sense of value for what we have to the sense of entitlement for what we didn’t have and can have if we could afford it...Gone are the days when you either enjoy yourself in your own skin, these days if you don’t like what it looks like, you can pay to get it removed and also redone. Some folks would say if you want it and you can well afford it, then buy it"
Television and reality TV have so glorified curvy women and well built men that every one wants to look like the figurine they see on TV..?
Aesthetic plastic surgery involves techniques intended for the "enhancement" of appearance through surgical and medical techniques, and is specifically concerned with maintaining normal appearance, restoring it, or enhancing it beyond the average level toward some aesthetic ideal.
In 2006, nearly 11 million cosmetic procedures were performed in the United States alone. The number of cosmetic procedures performed in the United States has increased over 50 percent since the start of the century. Nearly 12 million cosmetic procedures were performed in 2007, with the five most common surgeries being breast augmentation, liposuction, nasal surgery, eyelid surgery and abdominoplasty. The increased use of cosmetic procedures crosses racial and ethnic lines in the U.S., with increases seen among African-Americans and Hispanic Americans as well as Caucasian Americans. In Europe, the second largest market for cosmetic procedures, cosmetic surgery is a $2.2 billion business.[8] Cosmetic surgery is now very common in countries such as the United Kingdom, France, and Germany.
The most prevalent aesthetic/cosmetic procedures include:
Abdominoplasty ("tummy tuck"): reshaping and firming of the abdomen, Blepharoplasty ("eyelid surgery"): reshaping of the eyelids or the application of permanent eyeliner, including , Asian blepharoplasty, Phalloplasty, Mammoplasty: Breast augmentations ("breast implant" or "boob job"): augmentation of the breasts by means of fat grafting, saline, or silicone gel prosthetics, which was initially performed to women with micromastia Reduction mammoplasty ("breast reduction"): removal of skin and glandular tissue, which is done to reduce back and shoulder pain in women with gigantomastia and/or for psychological benefit men with gynecomastia Mastopexy ("breast lift"): Lifting or reshaping of breasts to make them less saggy, often after weight loss (after a pregnancy, for example). It involves removal of breast skin as opposed to glandular tissue Buttock augmentation ("butt implant"): enhancement of the buttocks using silicone implants or fat grafting ("Brazilian butt lift") and transfer from other areas of the body Buttock lift: lifting, and tightening of the buttocks by excision of redundant skin Chemical peel: minimizing the appearance of acne, chicken pox, and other scars as well as wrinkles (depending on concentration and type of agent used, except for deep furrows), solar lentigines (age spots, freckles), and photodamage in general. Chemical peels commonly involve carbolic acid (Phenol), trichloroacetic acid (TCA), glycolic acid (AHA), or salicylic acid (BHA) as the active agent. Labiaplasty: surgical reduction and reshaping of the labia Lip enhancement: surgical improvement of lips' fullness through enlargement Rhinoplasty ("nose job"): reshaping of the nose Otoplasty ("ear surgery"/"ear pinning"): reshaping of the ear, most often done by pinning the protruding ear closer to the head. Performed on both children and adults to decrease social anxiety and is done for purely cosmetic purposes contrary to popular belief that it improves hearing.[9]Rhytidectomy ("face lift"): removal of wrinkles and signs of aging from the face Browplasty ("brow lift" or "forehead lift"): elevates eyebrows, smooths forehead skin Midface lift ("cheek lift"): tightening of the cheeks Suction-assisted lipectomy ("liposuction"): removal of fat from the body Chin augmentation ("chin implant"): augmentation of the chin with an implant, usually silicone, by sliding genioplasty of the jawbone or by suture of the soft tissue Cheek augmentation ("cheek implant"): implants to the cheek Fillers injections: collagen, fat, and other tissue filler injections, such as hyaluronic acid Laser skin resurfacing
WE HOSTED A SUCCESFFULL WORLDCUP NOW WE TAKING SCIENCE AND AIDS HEAD ON
Nick Cannon Wake up man, who is your wife's baby daddy!!!
IS Whitney Houston Still A crack Head?
Friday, July 23, 2010
T.I GETTING MARRIED
THE LEKOTA SHILOWA MARRAGE! IS COPE COPING AT ALL?
When new kids on the political block come on board all haled them as the King makers and the one’s destined to rule, they were the balm that would heal the political terrain that had been sick over the years from the scourge of racism, the nemesis of political public office holders who use public funds for personal use but almost two years down the line and Cope is in ruin, the men that fought against their brothers the “ANC” were now turning the sword on themselves because of greed and lack of a common vision or visionary. Would COPE survive this implosion, Would they cope enough to be on ground and prepared for the next general elections? Tell us that you think